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  • Jim VandeHei, From ‘Win the Morning’ to ‘Choose Joy’

    Jim VandeHei, From ‘Win the Morning’ to ‘Choose Joy’

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    VandeHei’s new Zen incarnation fits right in with the rest of Finish Line, a daily Axios newsletter that promises “tips & tricks for thinking smarter about life,” and works as a sort of Goop for aspiring CEOs, with nuggets of health, social-science and psychology, accompanied by frequent aspirational bits of feel-good wisdom. One contribution from Allen featured Palantir’s CEO explaining why you should run like a snail. Another, from VandeHei and Erica Pandey, promoted hand-strengthening exercises as a key to longevity.

    “The idea behind Finish Line was, You’re watching Netflix with your significant other,” says Allen, whose byline also tops newsier newsletters. “You pick up your phone. You can doom scroll, and read something that makes you feel bad. Or you can actually use Finish Line to give you something healthy, helpful, hopeful.”

    Perhaps that’s how civilians are meant to engage with it.

    But I knew about the run-like-a-snail and the exercise-your-hands columns, not to mention the peace and love vibe, because I’m a journalist in Washington and there seems to be a whole culture built around fellow Beltway insiders emailing and Slacking and IMing one another excerpts from Finish Line, often accompanied by some version of “WTF.” Who are these guys, champions of “flood the zone” coverage, to be sermonizing about choosing joy or avoiding doomscrolling? Axios wouldn’t hire a career coach or fitness expert for political coverage — could it be that they’re elaborately pranking us by doing the reverse?

    The common denominator of most of the folks who gawk at the leadership columns is that — unlike me — they interacted at some point as journalistic colleagues or competitors of VandeHei, whose former public image was as a leader who favored martial analogies and the chest-thumping style of a football coach’s locker room pep talk. As a cofounder of POLITICO, he willed a game-changing publication into being before leaving amid, to put it mildly, acrimony over his leadership and headlines about financial losses and a polarized culture. He started Axios soon after. Both publications have since sold. A few of my colleagues lived through all of this, but I only showed up six years afterwards. My sole experience with VandeHei was in a previous job as editor of a magazine that covered the fireworks of his departure.

    Still, the spectacle of any Washington type suddenly not living up to a prior public image is always interesting. Was the old image incomplete? Or did something change to turn Mr. Admirer-of-People-Who-Break-Things into Mr. Admirer-of-Uncommon-Humility? Or is there some other dynamic going on, one that says something about the larger ecosystem of the capital?

    “I’m no less hard-charging now,” VandeHei told me. “I still get up at 4:30 in the morning. I still work around the clock. I’m still, I think, demanding of myself and demanding of others. But I would like to think I’ve evolved as a leader about how I take that ambition and energy and harness it in a way that brings out the best.”

    That’s more or less what you’ll get out of the columns, too — many of which deploy a familiar foil in order to illustrate the moral of the story: Jim VandeHei. The Jim VandeHei of a few years ago, that is.

    In New Jim’s telling, Old Jim was perpetually screwing things up with his temper and impulsivity and ego. Old Jim’s booboos represent object lessons for New Jim’s wisdom, anchoring columns about the importance of being kind when firing people, embracing “soft power” to avoid running a sweatshop, or not descending into unwinnable conflicts.

    It’s a charming literary device. To be sure, the screw-ups humble New Jim is pinning on callow Old Jim are generally misdemeanor offenses, the kind of stuff that’s relatively easy to cop to if you’re a man who sold his start-up for a mint — mostly small-ball tactical blunders, not big-picture blowups like the ones that punctuated the split from this publication.

    Aside from one man’s reckoning (or not) with his own track record, the leadership columns actually reflect something bigger, both about society at this moment, and about how people boss in 2023. The Beltway culture that incubated most of today’s top journalists — and top political staffers, and top policy makers — was one that valued paying your dues, sucking up subpar wages and subpar treatment in order to establish yourself in a hyper-competitive game. Successful organizations were also high-burnout ones.

    For reasons ranging from generational tastes to Covid-era labor-force challenges, it’s a model that is teetering.

    “I think younger workers demanded something much different of us than we demanded of our employer when we got into the game, right?,” VandeHei says. “Like, let’s be honest, when we got a job, coming out of college, we wanted to get a paycheck. And we didn’t want someone to hit us, right? We never thought about culture.” Today’s journalism newbies, he thinks, are apt to say, “I want more. I want purpose. I want to make sure that you as a company care about things that are important to me, diversity and inclusion.”

    Of course, he’s hardly the only one who has made that discovery. Management thinking everywhere in the knowledge industry has evolved — it’s just that most of the George Pattons suddenly finding their inner Dalai Lamas don’t seem quite so eager to share it with the world. VandeHei, with his self-promoting instinct (and a column to fill), opts to shout the new values from the rooftops, a Nixon-to-China reinvention that the political scribe might once have enjoyed covering. As such, he’s turned himself into perhaps the Beltway’s highest-profile example of a very 2023 model of leadership: The assertive empath.

    VandeHei says people have ribbed him about the wise-man columns, so he’s not completely unself-aware. But in person he comes off as a true believer — and no one in-house suggested to me that there’s a secret dungeonmaster lurking beneath the public good-guy performance. It’s part of his style: In every one of his incarnations he has always been a zealous missionary for whatever leaderly religion he was espousing.

    All the same, the other truth of modern media is that, just as the worker bees have changed, so have some of the stars. Arianna Huffington went from CEO to brand-name promoter of better sleep habits. Plenty of high-profile media figures have associated themselves with causes or values or styles without leaving their positions, too.

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    ( With inputs from : www.politico.com )

  • Choose your words, rehearse and why less is more: how to do pillow talk well

    Choose your words, rehearse and why less is more: how to do pillow talk well

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    The best sex I’ve ever had was with a man with superb oral skills. He could talk about sex so intoxicatingly I ended up moving in with him – and I’m still with him to this day. Expressing your desires with words is an art, while technology – voicenotes, texts, emails, and calls – offers a multitude of ways to communicate more compellingly than actual nudes.

    According to a UK poll by condom brand Durex, one in five sexually active women and one in four men find sexting uncomfortable, or would never do it. To that end, it’s important to understand that some words might excite one person but turn off another. “My partner told me never to use the word ‘damp’ when talking dirty,” a friend, James, 43, tells me. The wrong word can do more than spoil a mood, it can be triggering, cause offence or even trauma. Due to the influence of porn, it can be easy to assume that erotic talk can involve humiliation, when in fact using “whore” or “slut” are simply degrading.

    Sex educator and tutor of the Dirty Talk and Consent in Conversation workshop, Lola Jean, suggests casually chatting about names you do/don’t like yourself and your body parts to be called, as well as physical and non-physical compliments you enjoy, before you venture into anything proper.

    If that feels awkward, sending texts or even voicenotes can be a less intimidating way of starting a sultry conversation; you can take your time composing what you want to say, and simply delete and do over if it doesn’t land. Try opening a sext session with options, including an elegant opt-out: “Would you rather tell me what you’d do to me if I was with you right now – or make time to talk later?”

    This puts both parties at ease, and the chat on ice if they’re with their boss/mum, and means you won’t risk feeling rebuffed, especially if it’s taken a lot of guts to press send in the first place. You’re just being rescheduled for when they can give you the full attention you deserve; and you’re respectfully showing that you don’t expect them to simply down tools there and then.

    Once you’ve built up a repository of texts, sex blogger and audio erotica producer Girl on the Net recommends reading them aloud while you’re alone, to practise for face-to-face delivery. “Recite them in front of a mirror to perfect your sexy smile at the same time, to begin feeling more comfy and less silly about what’s coming out of your mouth,” she says.

    Rosy Pendlebaby is director of Revolting Arts Club, which runs a variety of sex-focused classes. She thinks the issue is that many people feel insufficiently creative to invent imaginative storylines about heaving bosoms and thick thighs out of thin air, or to come up with complex roleplay characters then act them out. Voicing fantasies can also feel exposing and high stakes, if you’re worried that your dream of, say, going down on your partner in public will go down like the proverbial lead balloon. Instead, kicking things off by recounting shared past experiences – “Do you remember when we …” – can feel more accessible and less pressured.

    “If you’re usually quiet in bed and new to in-person pillow talk, start off slowly and don’t expect to be able to weave masterpieces with your horny words from the off,” advises Girl on the Net. “Introduce speech with a few keywords, like ‘more’, ‘yes’, ‘please’, ‘that’s so good’; then build from there.”

    You don’t need to keep up a constant stream of chatter. Moments of silence not only give you the chance to think, but can build tension and give an aura of power and control, if that’s a dynamic you’re into.

    But above all, don’t take it too seriously. The idea of a partner laughing at something you intended to be sexy might seem horrifying. “But it’s OK for dirty talk to be playful and silly, nobody gets it right every time,” says Pendlebaby. “Correct slips with warmth and kindness, and get on with having fun.”



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    ( With inputs from : www.theguardian.com )

  • Monopoly Super Electronic Banking Board Game, Electronic Banking Unit, Choose Your Rewards, Cashless Gameplay Tap Technology, for Ages 8 and Up, Multicolor

    Monopoly Super Electronic Banking Board Game, Electronic Banking Unit, Choose Your Rewards, Cashless Gameplay Tap Technology, for Ages 8 and Up, Multicolor

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    Choose your card, choose your rewards! Players not only accumulate cash and properties, they can also earn rewards by buying a certain property, landing on a certain space on the gameboard, or rolling a specific number.
    BANKING UNIT: The Monopoly Ultimate Rewards board game features an all-in-one Ultimate Banking unit with tap technology that makes gameplay faster than the classic Monopoly game
    FLIGHT SPACES: Instead of purchasing railroads in this edition of the Monopoly game, players can choose to take a flight to any property on the gameboard
    GET INTO TRADING SPACES: Land on a Forced Trade space? Choose any property and immediately trade it for your choice of any other player’s property
    GREAT FAMILY GAME: The Monopoly Ultimate Rewards board game is fun for families and kids ages 8 and up. Get together for family game night and watch kids enjoy being in charge of their own banking card

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  • Choose Life, Not Tobacco: Coordination Committee meeting held at Shopian

    Choose Life, Not Tobacco: Coordination Committee meeting held at Shopian

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    SHOPIAN, FEBRUARY 14: The Additional Deputy Commissioner, (ADC) Shopian, Yar Ali Khan today chaired a district level Coordination Committee meeting at Mini Secretariat, here to review the action taken till date towards the furtherance of Tobacco free society and to discuss and approve the future plan of action against the implementation of COTPA Act, 2003.

    At the outset, CMO Shopian, Dr Arshid presented an overview of the National Tobacco Control Programme (NTCP), while an expert from DHSK presented discussion on the agenda points.

    On the occasion, directions were given for making all government institutions/ private premises ‘Tobacco Free Zones’ and all educational institutions as ‘Tobacco Free Educational institutions ‘ as per the guidelines.

    ADC also directed for displaying mandatory prominent signages across the district, at public places, institutions, etc denouncing use of Tobacco products. Directions were also passed to all stakeholders for taking strict action against retailers promoting Tobacco use through surrogate advertising.

    Emphasis was given on conducting intensive IEC activities across the district for dissemination of information on the adverse impacts of tobacco use. Capacity building of stakeholders was asked to be stressed for implementation along with increasing challans against the violations of the Act.

    Besides, feasibility of vendor licensing was also discussed in the meeting.

    ASP, Ifroz Ahmad; CMO, Dr.Arshid; CEO Mohd Mushtaq; DIO, STO, EO MC, ADP and other concerned attended the meeting besides a team of specialists from DHSK.

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    ( With inputs from : roshankashmir.net )